I love your article, but as everything it is not easy to answer the question about perfect relationship. It is and it is not all about us! There is Me, You and Us always involved and if you wouldn’t be selfish in a monetary view and all of our belongings are ours, that doesn’t mean that you wont have a partner sitting in a bar every night.
First of all, it is all individual and it starts with a choice if you will be living your life or dying your life!
If both partners decide to live their lives, that is a key for successful relationship.